Thursday, October 30, 2008

Docker, Big D, Uncle Docker, Dock


I still remember the first time I met Docker. It was when Patrick's Dad came to pick us up at St. Theresa Catholic Secondary School. It was a pretty crappy day out…it was either snowing, raining, or very wet snow… It was in December of 1999.

I remember seeing Pat's dad whizzing his way towards us through the neighbouring hockey arena parking lot, in the Harris' big brown van…the Astro.

Patrick took the front seat, and I opened the sliding door to the backseat. Docker bounded towards me, apparently very excited, drooling and slobbering all over my legs…I was wearing my school uniform kilt after all ;)

It was only about a 5 minute (or so) drive to the Harris house, but in those 5 short minutes my legs got all scratched up and nice and wet and coated with drool. I'm not sure if it was Docker's excitement of meeting a potential new friend, the wet roads, or Pat's Dad's driving, but those 5 minutes seemed like forever!

When we arrived at Patrick's house, I couldn't wait to get out of that van - I was not overly impressed. It makes me laugh thinking back on it.

Over the last 8 (nearly 9 years) I have grown to love Docker like he was my own family dog, because he came to be and was. Whenever I arrived at the Harris house he always ran to the door greeting me with a shoe in his mouth, as he did to everyone. Big D was an incredibly friendly and outgoing dog. There wasn't a person or dog that he didn't like (at least from what I can remember) or that didn't like him.

Not only was he incredibly good natured, he was also incredibly obedient. Until as of late and his hearing went, he always came when he was called, did doodie outside (except for a few crawl space incidents that I've heard about…lol) and never left the edge of the Harris property. How he knew to always stay on the lawn when he was let outside, it always amazed me.

From stories I've heard over the years about Docker, he was also very smart. When the Harris' first brought Dock home as a puppy, they attempted to crate him. They didn't want the little puppy getting himself into trouble while the family was out. Well, one time they locked him in the crate and somehow he figured out how to unlatch the door and he set himself free! Very impressive considering dogs don't have opposable thumbs!

When Patrick and I got Bella and Beau, Docker immediately took them under his wing. Although Docker's good behaviour didn't rub off on them, they did spend many a day snuggled up with him in his bed. When Beau was just a little puppy (and I think Moose too?) Docker would let them chew on his ears with their little puppy teeth. It was so funny to watch.

Bella and Beau loved Dock so much. Every time we'd ask them if they wanted to go see Uncle Docker they'd go mad with excitement. They'd jump all around and head to the front door. Even after we'd moved across the country, whenever we mention Uncle Docker their ears would perk up with excitement.

Docker was one of the only dogs I know with a stomach strong enough to handle chocolate (which is a major no, no for doggies). Every year on his birthday he was given his very own slice of chocolate cake - I think it helped to keep his ticker tickin'. I've also heard stories of Dock getting into Easter chocolate and eating entire Easter bunnies whole - including the tinfoil - eek! That boy sure had a sweet tooth.

When we still lived in Ontario we'd sometimes take Bella, Beau and Docker (and later Moose too) to the dog park in Belleville. The group of them had so much fun frolicking in the park and enjoying the fresh air - those were some great memories.

Docker passed away last weekend. He was nearly 15 years old, his birthday is in November.

We love and miss you Bid D!



The following poem is a take on "The Rainbow Bridge" poem. I love it because it shows us that we'll get to see and be with our doggies again one day...

By the edge of a woods, at the foot of a hill,
Is a lush, green meadow where time stands still.
Where the friends of man and woman do run,
When their time on earth is over and done.

For here, between this world and the next,
Is a place where each beloved creature finds rest.
On this golden land, they wait and they play,
Till the Rainbow Bridge they cross over one day.

No more do they suffer, in pain or in sadness,
For here they are whole, their lives filled with gladness.
Their limbs are restored, their health renewed,
Their bodies have healed, with strength imbued.

They romp through the grass, without even a care,
Until one day they start, and sniff at the air.
All ears prick forward, eyes dart front and back,
Then all of a sudden, one breaks from the pack.

For just at that instant, their eyes have met;
Together again, both person and pet.
So they run to each other, these friends from long past,
The time of their parting is over at last.

The sadness they felt while they were apart,
Has turned into joy once more in each heart.
They embrace with a love that will last forever,
And then, side-by-side, they cross over… together.
© 1998 Steve and Diane Bodofsky. All Rights Reserved.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

My Husband Is Extremely Talented


This picture was taken on Thanksgiving day. I went into this cupboard, which is above the fridge, to get a platter for something or other and found it this way.

It was clear that Patrick had been putting away the dishes for the last month or so…and apparently doing all the cooking too (I am so lucky!). But instead of taking his time and carefully arranging the dishes so they don't topple on our heads when we open the door, he somehow managed this Jenga like display. Granted, the dishes were stuffed in there so well, none toppled on my head, but should I try to remove one dish or plate, they would have!

We also had a rule that we would avoid stuffing random paper and mail above the fridge…as you can see from the fridge, that didn't work out so well…lol

I'm happy to report that I've since tidied up this cupboard…I guess I need to take a turn at putting away the dishes to ensure it stays this way :P

Monday, October 27, 2008

Spooktacular Weekend Part 1

Here at the HamiHarri house, we had a great weekend! On Saturday night we did a double date with the neighbour-roonies. Din-din at the Cactus Club (the mini-burgs were yum-o…but holy slow service bringing the accompanying fries…I'd finished the burgs before the fries had even arrived :(. After dinner we went on one Victoria's haunted walks…called "Ghost Walks" OOoooOoOooooo. It was spooky. It is amazing how haunted Victoria is… The walk taught us how to warm up our shockras to enable us to better feel the ghostly auras and spirits around us. Very cool.

We also carved our pumpkins… Patrick carved a laugh-tastic jack-o-lantern, and I one that said "Boo"…as well as a bat. I had one more to carve into a jack-o-lantern, but the top turned all mushy :(




On Sunday Meg, Pat, Bella, Beau and I all headed out to the "Yorkie Meet Up, Halloween Dress Up." It was fun, Fun, FUN! All the little Yorkies looked so cute in their costumes:

Here's Bella as a Bumble Bee


Beau as a Hotdog


Then we have Harry Potter


Meg with a Spider…


…and with a "Mail Mutt"


As well as a Frog Prince & Tigger…


After all the meet and greets and treats came the costume judging:


Bella won Best Costume for female Yorkie. Yay Bella!!!


The male costume contest was totally fixed though. An 8 month old Yorkie wearing a lame (I am so mean) devil hoodie won. I say it was fixed for a couple of reasons:

A: Beau should have won the prize (obviously)
B: If Beau didn't win, the Frog Prince or Harry Potter should have taken home the award (Spidy had already left).
C: The judge was holding the little devil puppy the ENTIRE time…and it was obvious she favoured it.

Anyhoo…we still had a blast! Bella and Beau had a great time (Beau more than Bella for some weird reason). They were able to reunite with their buddy Buster. Buster's Mom and Dad puppy-watched Bella and Beau for the entire time we were gone for our wedding (they are so nice!). AND we won the 50/50 draw :O $34 was split between Meg, Pat and I - yay!


After the Yorkie meet up we headed home to a lovely Sunday night family dinner where we all got a little goofy. Other than some sad news about the Harris family dog passing away (I'll be doing an "In Memory" post shortly…Docker was truly the "perfect dog" - even with all the drooling ;) it was a wonderful weekend.

Stay tuned for Part 2 next week after our Halloween Bash - whoot!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Best. Wedding. Ever.



Over Thanksgiving weekend, we were fortunate enough to attend our neighbours wedding. And honestly, it is the best wedding I have ever been to. It was an intimate celebration (I think under 20 people). This allowed us to spend ample time with the Bride and Groom, as well as allowed us to get to know the other guests. Not to mention it was a beautiful setting.



They rented the penthouse in the Laurel Point Inn here in Victoria. It is waterfront and gorgeous. The city backdrop of Victoria's Inner Harbour is B E A U - TIFUL!. Their ceremony took place on one of the outside deck high above the water.



The Bride and Groom choose gorgeous fall colours for their décor.



The ceremony itself was short and sweet - but meaningful. They had their mothers sign as witnesses and their little pooch George act as the Ring Bearer. They even trusted him with the actual rings!



Not only was the setting beautiful, but the food was so yummy. They had a huge appetizer spread with a champagne toast - just lovely! And this was all just a prelude to the tasty four course dinner.



Even when the power went out around the city just before dinner, the Bride and Groom took it all in stride. And once the staff brought out candles, we didn't even notice there was no electricity. This could have partly been because the dinning area was surrounded by floor to ceiling windows overlooking the ocean. Well, that and the libations were truly flowing, and we were in lovely company. Can't beat that!





Once the power had returned, dinner was served. We started with butternut squash soup (divine!), followed by a tasty salad, and for the main even a yummy free range chicken dish. For the finale, we were served their yummy chocolate wedding cake. I really think all wedding cakes should be chocolate ;) Along with dinner there were these incredibly delectable bread rolls. But they weren't the usually dinner rolls you'd expect. They were these flaky, light yummy things. Almost like croissants - delish!



After dinner we danced and lunged the night away… It was fabulous! The only thing missing was the Pizza Hut pizza ;)





The wedding also allowed me to get some good use out of our new DSLR. Although it is technically Patrick's camera, I think he was a little too shy to whip it out during the ceremony (it is a little larger than our Sony Cybershot that he's used to). While I on the other hand, had no problem taking pics ;p Although I did my best to be inconspicuous and respect the ceremony and events…especially the professional photographer space - they were after all paying him to take pics.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

To Dubai, Or Not To Dubai

Patrick and I were discussing our future goals and one of the biggies was to do some travelling. Our discussion then turned to places we'd love to see… We're already planning a trip to Europe in June 2010 (hopefully!) - mainly France and Italy - this one was mainly my idea, ok, ALL my idea. I think Patrick is more along for the ride ;) While one of the places Patrick would really like to see is Dubai. Dubai is a city in the country known as the United Arab Emirates. I apologize if I just got that all wrong. I'm sad to say that I'm really lacking in world geography - something I hope will be remedied by travel ;) Before Patrick mentioned it I really just though of it as another one of those Middle Eastern countries - nice, eh? Low on my list of "must see."

Anyhoo, from the little research that I have begun to do, Dubai seems like an amazing, booming place to visit.

Here is a picture taken in 1990 in Dubai:
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Here is another picture taken in 2003:
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And finally, here is a picture taken sometime last year:
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As you can see it evolved…
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Apparently, once completed, Dubai will have the largest waterfront in the world:


Here is the "Palm Tree" that was built in under 5 years:
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Here it is as viewd from space:
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If we do go, I'm thinking we'll stay here:
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It is called the The Burj Al Arab Hotel, and is apparently the only 7* hotel in the world.
But the real hook is this:
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It is called "Dubailand" - and is being built by Disney. Obviously it is still under contruction, but apparently, once completed it will be DOUBLE the size of Disney World in Orlando - amazing!

One of Patrick's colleagues has recently been there and deems it a place not to be missed. While our very own next door neighbour has been there several times (he's in the military ;) and believes that it is a very safe place to visit…

But I'm not overly confident of this. Sure, if you abide exactly by there rules and not deviate (alcohol is illegal, however, you apparently it is ok to drink in some hotels?). One of the major headlines regarding Dubai is about a British couple being sentenced to jail for three months:

http://www.cbc.ca/world/story/2008/10/16/dubai-indecency.html

A court in Dubai Thursday sentenced a British couple to three months in jail after they were found guilty of charges linked to them having sex on a beach in the booming Persian Gulf city.

Michelle Palmer, 36, and Vince Acors, 34, were arrested in July and charged with sex outside of marriage, public indecency and drunkenness.

Judge Hamdi Mustafa Abu el-Khair did not provide any details about his verdict as is customary in Dubai, so it is unclear whether the couple were found guilty of engaging in intercourse, or a lesser offence. The judge is expected to release his full decision within 10 days, said the couple's lawyer.

Palmer and Acors were also fined about $270 US and ordered deported from the United Arab Emirates after serving their sentence.

Their lawyer, Hassan Matter, told the Associated Press they would appeal the ruling within 15 days.

Both previously admitted they were drunk but denied having sex. The two were not in the courtroom Thursday to hear the judge's verdict, and it was unclear if they would remain out of prison while their lawyer appealed the case. Palmer is suffering from anxiety and depression, say reports.

The couple could have received two years in prison if convicted on all charges.
The incident reportedly took place after the pair met at a champagne brunch at the Le Meridien Hotel near Dubai's airport.

Public displays of affection are illegal in Dubai — a city that has worked hard to cultivate an image as a haven for Western tourists and businesses in the Middle East but has a conservative legal code based on Islamic laws and tribal rules.
With files from the Associated Press
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But even if I could get past these laws and oh so different customs, I'm not sure I can get past what I basically deem as slave labour and an incredible lack of human rights (it is a somewhat lengthy article, but worth the read):

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/oct/08/middleeast.construction

The sun is setting and its dying rays cast triangles of light on to the bodies of the Indian workers. Two are washing themselves, scooping water from tubs in a small yard next to the labour camp's toilets. Others queue for their turn. One man stands stamping his feet in a bucket, turned into a human washing machine. The heat is suffocating and the sandy wind whips our faces. The sprinkles of water from men drying their clothes fall like welcome summer rain.

All around, a city of labour camps stretches out in the middle of the Arabian desert, a jumble of low, concrete barracks, corrugated iron, chicken-mesh walls, barbed wire, scrap metal, empty paint cans, rusted machinery and thousands of men with tired and gloomy faces.

I have left Dubai's spiralling towers, man-made islands and mega-malls behind and driven through the desert to the outskirts of the neighbouring city of Abu Dhabi. Turn right before the Zaha Hadid bridge, and a few hundred metres takes you to the heart of Mousafah, a ghetto-like neighbourhood of camps hidden away from the eyes of tourists. It is just one of many areas around the Gulf set aside for an army of labourers building the icons of architecture that are mushrooming all over the region.

Behind the showers, in a yard paved with metal sheets, a line of men stands silently in front of grease-blackened pans, preparing their dinner. Sweat rolls down their heads and necks, their soaked shirts stuck to their backs. A heavy smell of spices and body odour fills the air.

Next to a heap of rubbish, a man holds a plate containing his meal: a few chillies, an onion and three tomatoes, to be fried with spices and eaten with a piece of bread.

In a neighbouring camp, a group of Pakistani workers from north and south Waziristan sit exhaustedly sipping tea while one of them cooks outside. In the middle of the cramped room in which 10 men sleep, one worker in a filthy robe sits on the floor grinding garlic and onions with a mortar and pestle while staring into the void.
Hamidullah, a thin Afghan from Maydan, a village on the outskirts of Kabul, tells me: "I spent five years in Iran and one year here, and one year here feels like 10 years. When I left Afghanistan I thought I would be back in a few months, but now I don't know when I will be back." Another worker on a bunk bed next to him adds: "He called his home yesterday and they told him that three people from his village were killed in fighting. This is why we are here."

Hamidullah earns around 450 dirhams (£70) a month as a construction worker.
How is life, I ask.

"What life? We have no life here. We are prisoners. We wake up at five, arrive to work at seven and are back at the camp at nine in the evening, day in and day out."
Outside in the yard, another man sits on a chair made of salvaged wood, in front of a broken mirror, a plastic sheet wrapped around his neck, while the camp barber trims his thick beard. Despite the air of misery, tonight is a night of celebration. One of the men is back from a two-week break in his home village in Pakistan, bringing with him a big sack of rice, and is cooking pilau rice with meat. Rice is affordable at weekends only: already wretched incomes have been eroded by the weak dollar and rising food prices. "Life is worse now," one worker told me. "Before, we could get by on 140 dirhams [£22] a month; now we need 320 to 350."

The dozen or so men sit on newspapers advertising luxury watches, mobile phones and high-rise towers. When three plastic trays arrive, filled with yellowish rice and tiny cubes of meat, each offers the rare shreds of meat to his neighbours.

All of these men are part of a huge scam that is helping the construction boom in the Gulf. Like hundreds of thousands of migrant workers, they each paid more than £1,000 to employment agents in India and Pakistan. They were promised double the wages they are actually getting, plus plane tickets to visit their families once a year, but none of the men in the room had actually read their contract. Only two of them knew how to read.

"They lied to us," a worker with a long beard says. "They told us lies to bring us here. Some of us sold their land; others took big loans to come and work here."
Once they arrive in the United Arab Emirates, migrant workers are treated little better than cattle, with no access to healthcare and many other basic rights. The company that sponsors them holds on to their passports - and often a month or two of their wages to make sure that they keep working. And for this some will earn just 400 dirhams (£62) a month.

A group of construction engineers told me, with no apparent shame, that if a worker becomes too ill to work he will be sent home after a few days. "They are the cheapest commodity here. Steel, concrete, everything is up, but workers are the same."

As they eat, the men talk more about their lives. "My shift is eight hours and two overtime, but in reality we work 18 hours," one says. "The supervisors treat us like animals. I don't know if the owners [of the company] know."
"There is no war, and the police treat us well," another chips in, "but the salary is not good."

"That man hasn't been home for four years," says Ahmad, the chef for the night, pointing at a well-built young man. "He has no money to pay for the flight."
A steel worker says he doesn't know who is supposed to pay for his ticket back home. At the recruiting agency they told him it would be the construction company - but he didn't get anything in writing.

One experienced worker with spectacles and a prayer cap on his head tells me that things are much better than they used to be. Five years ago, when he first came, the company gave him nothing. There was no air conditioning in the room and sometimes no electricity. "Now, they give AC to each room and a mattress for each worker."
Immigrant workers have no right to form unions, but that didn't stop strikes and riots spreading across the region recently - something unheard of few years ago. Elsewhere in Mousafah, I encounter one of the very few illegal unions, where workers have established a form of underground insurance scheme, based on the tribal structure back home. "When we come here," one member of the scheme tells me, "we register with our tribal elders, and when one of us is injured and is sent home, or dies, the elders collect 30 dirhams from each of us and send the money home to his family."

In a way, the men at Mousafah are the lucky ones. Down in the Diera quarter of old Dubai, where many of the city's illegal workers live, 20 men are often crammed into one small room.

UN agencies estimate that there are up to 300,000 illegal workers in the emirates.
On another hot evening, hundreds of men congregate in filthy alleyways at the end of a day's work, sipping tea and sitting on broken chairs. One man rests his back on the handles of his pushcart, silently eating his dinner next to a huge pile of garbage.

In one of the houses, a man is hanging his laundry over the kitchen sink, a reeking smell coming from a nearby toilet. Next door, men lie on the floor. They tell me they are all illegal and they are scared and that I have to leave.
Outside, a fistfight breaks out between Pakistani workers and Sri Lankans.
The alleyways are dotted with sweatshops, where Indian men stay until late at night, bending over small tables sewing on beads.

A couple of miles away, the slave market becomes more ugly. Outside a glitzy hotel, with a marble and glass facade, dozens of prostitutes congregate according to their ethnic groups: Asians to the right, next to them Africans, and, on the left, blondes from the former Soviet Union. There are some Arab women. Iranians, I am told, are in great demand. They charge much higher prices and are found only in luxury hotels.
Like the rest of the Gulf region, Dubai and Abu Dhabi are being built by expat workers. They are strictly segregated, and a hierarchy worthy of previous centuries prevails.

At the top, floating around in their black or white robes, are the locals with their oil money. Immaculate and pampered, they own everything. Outside the "free zones", where the rules are looser, no one can start a business in the UAE without a partner from the emirates, who often does nothing apart from lending his name. No one can get a work permit without a local sponsor.

Under the locals come the western foreigners, the experts and advisers, making double the salaries they make back home, all tax free. Beneath them are the Arabs - Lebanese and Palestinians, Egyptians and Syrians. What unites these groups is a mixture of pretension and racism.

"Unrealistic things happen to your mind when you come here," a Lebanese woman who frequently visits Dubai tells me as she drives her new black SUV. "Suddenly, you can make $5,000 [£2,800] a month. You can get credit so easy, you buy the car of your dreams, you shop and you think it's a great bargain; when you go to dinner, you go to a hotel ... nowhere else can you live like this."

Down at the base of the pyramid are the labourers, waiters, hotel employees and unskilled workers from India, Pakistan, Sri Lanka, Ethiopia, the Philippines and beyond. They move deferentially around the huge malls, cafes, bars and restaurants, bowing down and calling people sir and madam. In the middle of the day, during the hottest hours, you can see them sleeping in public gardens under trees, or on the marble floors of the Dubai Mosque, on benches or pieces of cardboard on side streets. These are the victims of the racism that is not only flourishing in the UAE but is increasingly being exported to the rest of the Middle East. Sometimes it reminds you of the American south in the 1930s.

One evening in Abu Dhabi, I have dinner with my friend Ali, a charming Iraqi engineer whom I have known for two decades. After the meal, as his wife serves saffron-flavoured tea, he pushes back his chair and lights a cigar. We talk about stock markets, investment and the Middle East, and then the issue of race comes up.
"We will never use the new metro if it's not segregated," he tells me, referring to the state-of-the-art underground system being built in neighbouring Dubai. "We will never sit next to Indians and Pakistanis with their smell," his wife explains.
Not for the first time, I am told that while the immigrant workers are living in appalling conditions, they would be even worse off back home - as if poverty in one place can justify exploitation in the other.

"We need slaves," my friend says. "We need slaves to build monuments. Look who built the pyramids - they were slaves."

Sharla Musabih, a human rights campaigner who runs the City of Hope shelter for abused women, is familiar with such sentiments. "Once you get rich on the back of the poor," she says, "it's not easy to let go of that lifestyle. They are devaluing human beings," she says. "The workers might eat once a day back home, but they have their family around them, they have respect. They are not asking for a room in a hotel - all they are asking for is respect for their humanity."

Towards the end of another day, on a fabulous sandy beach near the Dubai marina, the waves wash calmly over the beautiful sand. A couple are paragliding over the blue sea; on the new islands, gigantic concrete structures stand like spaceships. As tourists laze on the beach, Filipino, Indian and Pakistani workers, stand silently watching from a dune, cut off from the holidaymakers by an invisible wall.
Behind them rise more brand-new towers.

"It's a Green Zone mentality," a young Arab working in IT tells me. "People come to make money. They live in bubbles. They all want to make as much money as possible and leave."

Back at the Mousafah camps, a Pakistani worker walks me through his neighbourhood. On both sides of the dusty lane stand concrete barracks and the familiar detritus: raw sewage, garbage, scrap metal. A man washes his car, and in a cage chickens flutter up and down.

We enter one of the rooms, flip-flops piled by the door.

Inside, a steelworker gets a pile of papers from a plastic envelope and shoves them into my lap. He is suing the company that employed him for unpaid wages. "I've been going to court for three months, and every time I go they tell me to come in two weeks." His friends nod their heads. "Last time the [company] lawyer told me, 'I am in the law here - you will not get anything."

Economically, Dubai has progressed a lot in the past 10 years, but socially it has stayed behind," says Musabih. "Labour conditions are like America in the 19th century - but that's not acceptable in the 21st century."
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The part that really struck a cord with me was this:

"Not for the first time, I am told that while the immigrant workers are living in appalling conditions, they would be even worse off back home - as if poverty in one place can justify exploitation in the other."

If we do go to Dubai, it will definitely be a side trip…not the "destination"…we'd go for just enough time to gawk at all of the amazing architecture…have a swim (no cocktails!) and head home. Round trip airfare from Victoria is something like $6k…while it is only about $500 for a round trip out of Rome…perhaps we'll save a couple of days for this when we go to Europe…if Patrick can go to Europe for me, I can go to Dubai for him ;) As long as he promises to not drink any beer or eat any bacon!!! Oh and no kissing ;p

*I have no idea the original source for the posted pictures. They were forwarded to be via email ;)

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Counting down the minutes...

So Patrick has been gone for 12 960 minutes…and I miss him terribly :( I can't believe how lonely it can be to come home to an empty house - especially when I've been so used to having Patrick home all of the time. Thank goodness for Bella & Beau…the are a God-send. They are eager to great me and are great snuggle buddies when I need them.

On Sunday night I was able to get out of the house for awhile (and do something that didn't involve shopping…lol) - I went to my neighbour's (the one's with the bull dog named George) Bridal Shower! It was great fun…I ended up winning a couple of the games (my team one the toilet paper bride contest and I believe it or not, I also won "How Well Do You Know The Bride" - and I just met her in July! LOL…I had a few lucky guesses though ;).

The shower was in the evening - it began at 5:00pm - which was really nice. Her Mom Joanne put on a lovely spread of yummy appetizers…and of course wine - good thing I didn't have far to go (next door…lol). That is kind of the running joke whenever any of us neighbours get together "Are you sure you don't need a ride home?" …lol Good times…

Here is a link to some picture of the shower - I made the bow/ribbon hat - so proud ;p :



www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=163856&l=66cff&id=658325106

I also thought I'd share the link to Steph's Baby Shower pictures - the theme was carried out brilliantly thanks to A. Patricia, Emma & Ali - and Gail, and Karen and Meagan…everyone really pitched in and went with it ;)

www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=164292&l=dbc16&id=658325106

I've also just received my first book for the blogger book club I'm participating. It is called "Water for Elephants" by Sara Gruen - anyone have a chance to read it?

Only 4320 minutes to go until Patrick is home...

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Back From Ontario...what, you didn't realize I'd gone?

I'm back from a week in Ontario and it was lovely! I met my cute as a button nephew, Jacob. He is such a sweetie. He is just the right amount of chubby and has the fluffiest hair - I could just squeeze him and squeeze him.

Patrick and I, and our awesome family, all pitched in to finally finish the Kingston house, so it was liveable. It is sad to say that we lost a friend as a result of this house, but the whole situation makes me wonder if he was much a of a friend to begin with. For those of you that don't know, we have a little bungalow in K-town that we rent out to students. Our "friend" was both living in there and helping us "manage" it - but did a bang up crap job and the house was nearly destroyed. There were HUGE holes in nearly every room. The backyard was a forest, and there was dirt and grim, and GARBAGE everywhere. The place was a disaster. But is now fixed up (and looks pretty good if I do say so myself)…and most importantly it is rented out. Because it was such a disaster, it had been vacant since May - eep! One less mortgage to worry about. It still makes us sad to think about what our little house has gone through…it was our first home afterall.

Some bad news on the real estate front is that our condo sale fell through. We were soooo close to selling it…but the prospective buyers basically changed their minds at the eleventh hour :( Oh well, it happens I guess. Our listing expires in November, so we'll likely take it off the market and re-list next year…who knows what the housing market will be like then? At least we have a couple of awesome tenants in there (knock on wood), so we feel good about that.

Although I'm back in Victoria, Patrick is still in Toronto, where he'll remain for the next two weeks on course :( I can't believe how sad I am about this. This will be the longest we have been apart for the entire 8 years (9 in December!) we have been together. That sounds kind of pathetic, but it is the truth. I feel as sad as Beau looks. The little guy is so forlorn…his little face is so sad. I picked him up from my sister and brother-in-laws where he was staying (thanks again guys!) on Monday night…he was less than thrilled to see me…didn't really jump around or anything. Then, when we arrived back home he did a quick run through the house. Once he realized it was empty he sat in front of the door and just stared for nearly an hour. When it was time to bed he wouldn't come when I called. I usually say "bed time" and he runs with glee into our room. Well, not that night. I had to go and carry him up to bed. He then proceeded to jump off the bed every few hours and whining at the bedroom door, thus waking me up too. We both had a very hard night.

Now that Bella is home (I picked her up from Pet Pampering - $120 later…eep!) I think that Beau is feeling much better. He even played a little bit, and seemed to sleep the entire night.

When I brought Bella home, I couldn't believe how stinky she was. She seriously smelled like a farm! Despite her smell, I think she really likes Pet Pampering (which is basically a free run kennel). One of her caregivers even told me that she learned to wait for the gravy sauce over her kibble…I guess in the beginning she was eating her food too fast and missing out…lol

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On the way home last night I stopped at Michael's and picked up some stuff to make a Fall wreath for our front door - not including the door hook (which I'll be returning) it came to nearly $38 - oops!



I think it turned out ok…not necessarily full…but I'm keen on the more sparse and simple these days…and this is as close as "country" as I'm willing to get.



Some more pics…







When I left the house for work this morning, the wreath and hook had fallen off the door. I was worried that this might happen…I just used one of those sticky hooks that are removable. It didn't adhere properly to the wood door. Short of putting a nail in the door, I'm not sure how I will hang it. I'm thinking of sticking the hook onto the glass part of the door…instead of lower on the door as in the pictures. Hopefully it will look just as cute…and stay on better.